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There is no way that a doula can replace a father's role in labor.  This is the most intimate time in a couples life.  The loving and supportive words that a father gives is more effective then any drug.  This is a time in the couples life when they fall in love all over again with more appreciation and compassion.  A doula is just there for encouraging the mother and father for emotional, physical, and mental support.  For a father that wants to have a very active role a doula would be there simply to give the father hints on the ways the mother can ease the pain, reminders on how she could change positions, and advice during the birth so he can focus only on her.  For fathers that want to have a  tag team approach to a laboring mother a doula is a wonderful idea.  Labors can last a very long time some times over 24 hours and the father can take a guilt free break for a bite to eat.  Or if the father needs a break to rest his hands the doula can step in and take turns massaging the mother.    Fathers that have doulas on hand have the opportunity to take the birth all in.




 Cesarean Birth in a Culture of Fear 
                                                                                                                  
When I tell someone I am working on a story about the escalating rate of cesarean sections in the US, it often leads to a conversation that goes something like this:

"C-section rates are up to 50 percent or higher in some hospitals," I say. "Doctors often feel they must do a C-section to protect themselves from a malpractice suit. And many of them seem to feel that a C-section is actually better than vaginal birth. A lot of women are being given unnecessary surgery."

"I had a C-section," my acquaintance will say. "But in my case, it was necessary."

"Tell me about it."

"Well, the baby's heart rate started to drop on the fetal monitor, and the doctor was worried that she wasn't handling labor very well. So he said a C-section was the safe thing to do."

It's an awkward conversation, to say the least. I would never want to make any woman feel bad about the birth of her child. Women need to be honored for their birth stories, no matter how those stories go. And having been told by both a doctor and a reliable-looking and expensive piece of machinery that her baby could be in trouble, my acquaintance probably made the best decision she could make in that moment. By the time she reached the point when that decision was made, it could, in fact—after hours of beeping noises on the fetal monitor, the suspense of the hospital atmosphere, and loads of chemicals pumping into her body—have been the only choice available.

And yet I also know what hundreds of other birth activists know. Some percentage of women who think their C-sections were necessary—because of fluctuating heart rates, large babies, failure to progress, previous C-sections, difficult birth positions, and on and on—have actually had unnecessary C-sections.

I know this because the World Health Organization (WHO) says that any time a country's cesarean-section rate rises above 15 percent, the dangers of C-section surgery outweigh the lifesaving benefits it is supposed to provide. 1In the US, the overall C-section rate has now reached 30.2 percent.2

That conversation, which I have had all too many times with various women, boils down to this: There are too many C-sections being done—unless it is your C-section. Then, it just isn't so clear. That conversation parallels the one that seems to be happening on a national scale. Although the arguments against the use of C-sections, except when there is no other choice, are clear, and although these arguments are supported by plenty of evidence and statistics, doctors and patients do not seem to be using that information to change birth practices. It doesn't seem to matter that, in the US:

 

  1. A woman is five to seven times more likely to die from a cesarean delivery than from a vaginal delivery.
  2. A woman having a repeat C-section is twice as likely to die during delivery.
  3. Twice as many women require rehospitalization after a C-section than after a vaginal birth.
  4. Having a C-section means higher rates of infertility, ectopic pregnancy, and potentially severe placental problems in future pregnancies.
  5. Babies born after an elective cesarean delivery (i.e., when labor has not yet begun) are four times more likely to develop persistent pulmonary hypertension, a potentially life-threatening condition.
  6. Between one and two babies of every hundred delivered by C-section will be accidentally cut during the surgery.3
  7. The US is tied for second-to-last place with Hungary, Malta, Poland, and Slovakia for neonatal mortality in the industrialized world.4
  8. Babies born via C-section are at high risk for not receiving the benefits of breastfeeding.5
  9. The risk of death to a newborn delivered by C-section to a low-risk woman is 1.77 deaths to 1,000 live births. The risk of death to a newborn delivered vaginally to a low-risk woman is only 0.62 per 1,000 live births.6

       

      Despite these statistics—which are just drops in the bucket of information available about the dangers of cesarean surgery—the procedure keeps being done. Women are not well enough informed, say birth activists. Medical schools are not teaching doctors how to create optimal scenarios in which successful vaginal birth can happen. Doctors are making decisions based on fear of malpractice suits rather than medical necessity. But even though we know all of this, and even though the statistics are compelling, high-tech birth practices continue, and the C-section rate keeps climbing, with every indication that it will climb higher. Why? "In another century, these birth plans will be perfect time capsules of postmodern maternity," says Tina Cassidy in her recently published book, Birth: The Surprising History of How We Are Born, "for if there is one thing that writing this book has taught me, it is that birth always reflects the culture in which it happens."7 Which made me wonder: In examining the way we give birth today, what would an anthropologist a hundred years from now learn about our culture?

      The Mantra of Fear
      If an imaginary future anthropologist took a look at our current birth practices, she or he might conclude that we were a very frightened people indeed. In her book, Cassidy reports that many women have a deep feeling that birth is inherently dangerous. "Deliveries at home and in birth centers have been statistically proven to be as safe as those in hospitals, where, not incidentally, one's chances of having a cesarean soar just because you walk through the door. . . . There are, and always have been, trade-offs in decisions about where a child should be born. . . . Weighing those options, women still want to give birth where they feel most safe. And for all but a fraction of those pregnant today, that place is on a bed that can—if necessary—be wheeled into the operating room, surrounded by machines, and attached to electrodes and a catheter that drips anesthetic directly to the spine."8

      Just look at the statistics in the 2006 survey "Listening to Mothers II." Only one in four women surveyed had attended a class in childbirth education—however, 68 percent of these women had watched one or more television "reality" shows that depict childbirth.9 With few exceptions, these shows portray births that follow a strictly medical model, usually problem pregnancies in which women and their babies are rescued by heroic medical procedures. Machines beep wildly in the background, and the atmosphere is fraught with tension.

      Maureen P. Corry, executive director of Childbirth Connection, which sponsored the "Listening to Mothers" surveys, feels that such shows make women believe that this type of birth is completely normal for all women.10 In the 2006 survey, 72 percent of first-time mothers felt that watching these shows "helped me understand what it would be like to give birth." In other words, being rescued from a dangerous situation by medical technology now seems to them to be a normal part of the birth experience. Even more striking is that 32 percent of first-time mothers felt, on the other hand, that the shows "caused me to worry about my upcoming birth."

      Neither position seems likely to prepare a woman for the idea of birth as a normal life process that might actually go well on its own, with little or no intervention—a process that is, in fact, biologically more likely to go well. "Our culture has an 'accident waiting to happen' mentality," says Corry of the survey's findings. "It makes birth go from a normal physiological process to something that resembles intensive care. I think it is indicative of the larger culture in general."

      Indeed, we seem to be a people who are just waiting for something to go wrong. You have only to turn on the evening news to get a good dose of what there is to be fearful about. On any given day, you can hear that the supplement you were told last month would add years to your life has now been proven to be toxic. Your chances of developing such-and-such disease have been increased by your living in the town or neighborhood you moved to last year. If you don't send your children to get extra tutoring right now, they will never succeed in their chosen careers.

      Certainly, the events of September 11, 2001, and fears of terrorism have increased this tendency—or perhaps it is our fear-filled response to these threats that has caused our lives to become even more anxiety-ridden. For many, it has become impossible to sort out the difference between sensationalism and valuable information. And this very uncertainty itself provokes more anxiety, adding yet another layer of fear.

      Our fear-based culture shows up in another birth-related way: the overriding fear of most doctors—even many midwives—of being sued for malpractice. This fear is based on grim reality. Being sued for malpractice can be life-changing and devastating: Doctors can lose their practices, their homes, their life savings. And so, as the normal ebb and flow of labor unfolds, physicians all too quickly resort to responding as if to a worst-case scenario. If a woman is not progressing quickly enough, or if the fetal monitor she is attached to indicates a change in the baby's heart rate, the physician feels the safest route is to use every medical tool available, to show that all the bases have been covered. To protect themselves from the expense of a major, career-destroying lawsuit, doctors pay for malpractice insurance at increasingly outrageous rates—some as much as $200,000 per year.

      But why is it that the very things that cause birth-related morbidity rates to rise are seen as the "safe" way to go? Why aren't women and their doctors terrified of the chemicals that are dripped into their spines and veins—the same substances that have been shown to lead to more C-sections? Why aren't they worried about the harm those drugs might be doing to the future health of their children, as some studies are indicating might be the case?11 Why aren't they afraid of picking up drug-resistant Staphylococcus infections in the hospital? And why, of all things, aren't women terrified of being cut open? Again, the response seems totally irrational.

      Our future anthropologist might soon conclude that the answer lies in our culture's biggest fear of all—of letting go and allowing natural processes to carry on—and our fascination with and blind faith in science and technology as the ultimate antidotes.

      Lost in Technology
      "The rise of technology has seeped itself into the most profound and intimate aspects of our lives: our health, how we find a mate, and even how we give birth," intones the narrator in the public-radio documentary Birth, created by Ahri Golden and Tania Ketenjian of Thin Air Media, and recently distributed by Public Radio International.12

      Technology is, indeed, ever present in our lives, and at this point is virtually inescapable. Most of us could not get a job without at least some computer skills. Children are highly computer-literate at young ages, and have their own cell phones, iPods, and Xboxes. We struggle to keep up with technology. Just as we've learned all the ins and outs of one cell phone, we're handed another, with a new calling plan, and have to learn a new batch of commands and features. We buy a new microwave oven whose controls are completely different from our old one's, which forces us to sit down and read the manual. Our old TV refuses to cooperate with our new TiVo player, and we end up hiring someone to come in and install it for us simply because we can't spare two hours to figure it out ourselves. Technology has its good side, too, of course. We can keep in touch with loved ones who are far away. We can work from home and be closer to our families. But that future anthropologist will already know about our obsession with technology, having examined the way we have our babies. By the time most women arrive at the hospital to give birth, they have already had several sonograms and a number of high-tech screening tests over the course of their pregnancy—and that's only the ones who fit the tightly defined profile of a low-risk pregnancy. In most hospitals, they will be immediately hooked up to a fetal monitor, and an intrauterine gauge that measures their contractions. Many will soon be hooked up to a Pitocin drip to start or intensify labor contractions, along with an intravenous line for hydration and medications. Most will have an epidural line going into their spines, and a catheter. All of these are controlled by complicated, computerized mechanisms designed to carefully monitor and control the entire process.

      "Altogether she may have up to 16 different tubes, drugs, or attachments," states Jennifer Block in her book Pushed: The Painful Truth about Childbirth and Modern Maternity Care. "Recently approved by the FDA, another device (bringing the total to 17) may become a common feature of maternity care: two electrodes planted inside the vagina on either side of the cervical opening to continually measure dilation and alert staff when a woman is 'complete,' at 10 centimeters."13

      Finally, many of these women will go on to experience the even more high-tech arena of the operating room, where they will be given a C-section. The technology then continues after birth, as both mother and baby are cared for and monitored by countless other medical procedures and examinations.

      This is what present-day anthropologist Robbie Davis-Floyd calls "The Technocratic Model of Birth." In her 1993 article of that title, she says, "In the United States today our sense of national identity is grounded in our technology."14

      Rituals Many advocates of better birthing practices think that one of the greatest costs of high-tech birth is the loss of traditional birthing rituals. But if rituals are used by a people to organize and define their culture, then, Davis-Floyd believes, we actually do have rituals around birth—it's just that our rituals are now based on machinery. "The obstetrical routines applied to the 'management' of normal birth are also transformative rituals that carry and communicate meaning above and beyond their instrumental ends," she stated in an interview. "The meaning they communicate is that high technology is superior to biology and women's body-knowing, and is essential to ensure the safety of birth. The deeper meaning pervades our culture: Nature is to be feared, technology to be trusted. This cultural ethos prevents us from using the vast available information we have about how to support and facilitate the normal physiology of birth without unnecessary intervention."15

      Further, Davis-Floyd says, we cannot consciously choose to accept or reject the meaning of the messages these rituals convey. These rituals become so powerful that, even if many individuals believe differently or wish to change the ritual, most of even these people will ultimately align themselves with the practices of the larger society. And if at any time a given ritual fails to produce the desired result, it is applied even more intensely in an attempt to gain control of the situation. This cycle then continues to intensify, even in the face of the seeming irrationality of many of the medical interventions.

      One interesting, if chilling, theory is described by obstetrician Michel Odent in his book The Caesarean: "One must keep in mind that for thousands of years the basic strategy for survival of most human groups has been to dominate nature and to dominate other human groups. . . . It is significant, when comparing different societies, that the greater the need to develop aggression and the ability to destroy life, the more intrusive the rituals and cultural beliefs are in the period around birth."16 And one way we know how very important our birth rituals have become as markers of society, Odent claims, is by observing how researchers who are studying the long-term effects of modern medical interventions in birth are treated. "I came to the conclusion that research can be politically incorrect. Most researchers looking at how people were born have faced extreme bureaucratic difficulties. It may be that they are shaking the very foundations of our societies."17

      This mirrors the feelings of scores of birth practitioners and activists who attended or participated in the National Institutes of Health's (NIH) State-of-the-Science Conference: Cesarean Delivery on Maternal Request (CDMR), which was held in March 2006 to discuss the supposed trend of CDMR. Although the available evidence does not support the notion that large numbers of women are actually requesting elective, "vanity" C-sections, the stated goal of the conference was to examine whether or not a woman should be allowed to have a C-section even though she has no medical reason to do so, and to determine if this is a safe or ethical practice for doctors to encourage.

      However, restrictions on the discussions, and on which studies were to be considered, made it impossible to question the safety of C-sections themselves. For example, Deanne R. Williams, former executive director of the American College of Nurse-Midwives, says the conference-planning committee's list of allowable topics to present as research did not include ectopic pregnancy. "Yet we know that C-sections increase risk for ectopic pregnancies . . . [which] can be life-threatening."18

      Retired obstetrician Dr. Charles Mahan, a birth activist and the former Maternal and Child Health Director for the state of Florida, who attended the NIH conference, agrees that the conference's very premise seemed skewed. "For one of the world's leading health organizations to hold a conference when I think they already knew, before they got into it, that there wasn't enough evidence on the subject—I think there must be some politics behind it."19

      Sadly, the opportunity to examine the rising rates of C-section and to question the safety of this trend was, in this instance, lost. The NIH concluded that it couldn't come to a conclusion because "there is insufficient evidence to evaluate fully the benefits and risks of cesarean delivery on maternal request as compared to planned vaginal birth, and more research is needed."20

      In the audience, a strong force of birth advocates and activists attempted to provide evidence to the panel about the virtual nonexistence of the supposed trend in CDMR, as well as the ample evidence supporting good-practice vaginal birth, but to little avail. In the end, even a clear definition of what a CDMR actually is was never made. Does it include those deliveries in which a woman, pressured by her doctor and racked with fear, agrees to a C-section when a trial of labor might have been a realistic possibility? Does it include the woman who has had a previous C-section and who cannot find a practitioner willing to let her have a vaginal birth after cesarean section (VBAC)?

      If, then, a birthing ritual is stronger than reason and evidence, and if, by definition, rituals are the embodiments of symbols held sacred by the larger culture, exactly what messages might our future anthropologist discover behind the present day's rituals and symbols of birthing?

      Message 1: Don't live in the present moment. Some people believe that the many technological devices that have become part of our daily lives clearly reveal our fear of living in the present moment. "You look at all the gadgets we carry around: the BlackBerry, the cell phone—nobody is operating from their center," says Karen Brody, author of the play Birth and founder of the organization Birth On Labor Day (BOLD), which strives to raise awareness of birth practices around the world through its special events. "When you are separated from your center, you lose power. And to me, that's birth today."21

      To live in the present moment and really have our feelings, it is necessary to let go of our control over every detail of our lives. Technology gives us the feeling that we have control: We know where people are, when things are happening, and what has suddenly changed—at least, we think we do. But sometimes the very attempt to keep track of things can backfire. You can have a car crash because you're talking to someone on your cell phone; you can walk into people on the sidewalk because you were staring at your BlackBerry. You can fail to notice the beautiful scenery around you. "There is fear in connection," says Brody. "If you really find your center, you may not like it—it may give you discomfort. Certainly in birth, if we go to our center, that means we may have to face what is. It might be painful, for example."

      Are we, as a culture, afraid to feel all of life: the pain, the joy, the present moment—even a little boredom?

      Message 2: You must be in control at all times. Technology gives us the feeling that we are in control of not only our feelings, but also of our experience, and particularly of time itself.

      Ever since the late 1940s, when Dr. Emanuel Friedman first attempted to track the average duration of each phase of labor, obstetricians have increasingly striven to keep deliveries within a "reasonable" time frame. And, as elsewhere in the culture, physicians feel the constraints of time. They have less and less of it to spend one-on-one with their patients, especially in hospitals, where they are expected to attend to a certain minimum number of patients during each shift. Faced with a capricious bodily function such as labor, obstetricians often try to control it—for instance, speeding it up with a Pitocin drip—despite the fact that initiating or augmenting labor has been shown to sharply increase the chances that cesarean surgery will then be performed.

      Public-radio documentarian Ahri Golden agrees. "Life expectancy is longer today than at any point in human history, and the pace of our mass-communicating American culture is increasing all the time. But, a certain intimacy and connection among humans is getting lost. It is this lack of intimacy, community, and consciousness of time that has affected all rites of passage in human life, most particularly the way in which we birth."22

      Message 3: Don't trust your own intuition. We live in an age of specialists. Most of us are painfully aware of how little we know about many aspects of our daily lives. Gone are the days of being able to do anything but the most basic car repairs on our own. Now we need computer diagnostic machines to tell us why the car won't start.

      Given this daily message, it's pretty hard for a pregnant woman to believe that she might actually know more about herself and her growing baby than anyone else—especially a doctor who was in training for a decade and who knows how to interpret all the numbers and noises emitted by the machines.

      In "Listening to Mothers II," 73 percent of women said that, after consulting with their caregiver, they wanted to be the decision makers when it came to giving birth.23 When asked how much information they should be given about epidurals, inductions, and cesareans, the vast majority thought they should know about every complication of these procedures before making the decision to have them, says Maureen P. Corry. But when these mothers were provided with statements concerning adverse effects of cesarean and induction, 'most mothers, whether they had the intervention or not, were poorly informed about these procedures. "This is a huge disconnect," observes Corry.

      Message 4: Be perfect. Women have always struggled with the need not to be merely excellent or even superb, but absolutely perfect. In the US, women are under pressure to look fabulous all the time, to be thin and fit. The rate of cosmetic plastic-surgery procedures climbed 7 percent between 2004 and 2006.24 Women are also supposed to have meaningful jobs that significantly contribute to the family income, and represent the years of education they have had. And, with all of this, women are still expected to be the main organizers of the family and care for the home.

      Our cultural imperative to be perfect, while more pronounced in women, is also felt by men and children, and is revealed in hundreds of ways—from "reality" makeover shows to the increasing competition to get into a good college. It is hardly surprising that this imperative has been extended to birth practices.

      "In recent decades, as birth rates in developed countries began to drop due to shifting religious beliefs and greater access to contraception, parents decided that they would have just one, two, maybe three children—and they expected each of the progeny to be perfect. Such modern expectations, combined with doctors' fears of malpractice, can lead a woman, if there is any chance of complications, to opt for, or readily agree to, a cesarean," says Tina Cassidy.25

      In this search for the perfect child, the ends are often seen to justify the means. In Birth, Golden and Ketenjian's public radio documentary, an unidentified doctor tells us that "you have to look at labor as a stepladder: the bottom of the ladder, you walk into the hospital and you're probably in early labor; the top of the ladder is, you're leaving the hospital with a healthy mom and a healthy baby. How you get from the bottom to the top is less important than getting to the top."26

      Davis-Floyd points out that most women, by having interventions that keep them from a healthier birth experience, don't even realize what they've missed: "They don't understand the value of natural hormones and how epidurals completely cut off the flow of natural oxytocin. Some of the price for that comes out later in terms of bonding and success of breastfeeding. Those are subtle things [they] may not connect together." In fact, evidence presented by such physicians as Dr. Sarah Buckley tells us that it is possible to experience a state of ecstasy in births during which women are not exposed to fearful scenarios. In such situations, the cocktail of hormones naturally produced by a mother during birth is allowed to perform its magic.27

      Message 5: Be unique . . . but not too unique. Advertising lets us know that we should "be all that we can be" and find our true potential—as long as we do it this way, or buy this product. The message comes down to one more area in which we should be perfect: that of finding our own true selves. At the same time that we are told to be all that we can be, we are also told that there are only a very few right ways in which to do this.

      In her autobiographical book A Midwife's Story, Penny Armstrong describes how this translates into a typical hospital birth: "When you go to the hospital to have your baby, they put you in a bed like all other hospital beds, they dress you in a gown like all other hospital gowns, they surround you by an entire hospital staff that guides you along a track that diminishes your individuality and its unique demands, they substitute sophisticated procedures, and relatively speaking, your having a baby is efficient and unemotional for the attendants."28

      Message 6: Business comes first. The term workaholic was coined in the US for good reason. Our workweeks are notoriously longer, and our vacation plans shorter, than in the rest of the industrialized world. Perhaps this ties in with our drive to stay away from the feeling parts of ourselves. Applied to birth, the idea of "earning first, people second" becomes a bit frightening.

      In his soon-to-be-released documentary, Pregnant in America, Steve Buonaugurio explores and reveals "the betrayal of humanity's greatest gift—birth—by the greed of US corporations. Hospitals, insurance companies, and other members of the health care industry have all pushed aside the best care of our infants and mothers to play the power game of raking in huge profits."29 The business-first credo of the birth industry is also revealed in the way it manages time. As discussed earlier, mothers' labor is forced to fit specific time frames—even to the point where statistics show that, in hospitals, most births now happen between the hours of 9 a.m. and 5 p.m., when hospitals have the most staff available.

      Considering how lucrative the business of birth can be, it is not surprising that the health care industry is so deeply invested in keeping us all believing that we can't live without them—in fact, that we can't even enter life without them.

      Message 7: Always be on the lookout for trouble. "We are an extremely risk-oriented society," says Davis-Floyd. "We imagine all the things that can go wrong, and we respond with a whole lot of preventive measures, many of which, in birth, cause the very things they are supposed to prevent."

      Western medicine is built on this idea of fixing what is wrong in order to prevent further ill health. While there is increasing interest in other philosophies of care, the very fact that these models are still referred to as "alternative medicine" clearly tells us that they are yet to be fully embraced by most of the culture.

      Even our obsession with working out and achieving optimal health through practices such as yoga sometimes seems to be more about fixing what is wrong than about lovingly caring for the body. "There is something in our culture where we focus on keeping the body slim and eating organic foods, but we still avoid the animal parts of our bodies that defecate and have hair," says Jennifer Block.30 Applying the precepts of Western medicine directly to the birth process is problematic because birth is not inherently pathological—that is, it is not a disease. It is, rather, a natural physiological process akin to eating or sleeping, albeit one that occurs a lot less frequently and is potentially far more gratifying—you end up with a beautiful new human being.

      In many parts of the world, that is exactly how birth is handled. In Holland, for example, 34 percent of women give birth at home31 (as compared to less than 1 percent in the US32), and even for most of the ones who don't, the experience is far from being the technology-dominated event it is here. "We don't see it as a medical thing," says Dr. Tom Kreunig, a Dutch ob-gyn physician interviewed in Pregnant in America. "It's a natural thing and sometimes you need medical assistance."

      "Unfortunately, our focus on risk that leads us to try to prevent every possible catastrophe with technology causes us to create new dangers and risk," confirms Davis-Floyd. "And some of them are kind of invisible." An example she cites is that of prenatal tests. Although they offer no guarantees, do not provide solid answers, and even lead some women to take action based on test results that later prove false, it can feel almost impossible to say no to them. "The whole ethos of the culture is that if the technology exists, we should use it," says Davis-Floyd. "So, not using it looks like you are giving your baby substandard care."

      Looking Within Ourselves
      Robbie Davis-Floyd believes that two big events in the early 2000s caused the most recent jump in C-section rates. One was the loss of accessibility to VBACs, after three major studies appeared to declare them to be too risky.33-35 Although these studies turned out to be flawed and have been widely misinterpreted, believing that VBACs are too dangerous and that women are asking for C-sections as if they were the latest in wrinkle-reducing creams fits much better into the paradigm of technocratic birth.

      The other events that Davis-Floyd believes have contributed to the increase in C-sections include (1) a 2003 opinion piece from the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology declaring the performance of elective cesarean to be ethical, which made obstetricians feel freer to perform them;36 and (2) the more recent publicity surrounding the subject of CDMRs—elective, or "vanity," C-sections—and the 2006 NIH conference held on this topic. There is little actual evidence that truly elective C-sections—ones in which the woman has decided, without pressure from a physician or true medical necessity, to have the surgery—are taking place. Clarifying the distinction between a C-section that is performed because a doctor has advised it, even though it is not strictly a medical necessity, and a C-section that is done only because a woman wants it, was something the NIH conference failed to do.

      People tend to see what they want to see. When it comes to ideas that threaten strong cultural messages such as the ones outlined here, change is a tough order. "There are doctors who actually do pay attention to the evidence, and do try to change—but the whole system is set up against them—so they suffer a lot," say Davis-Floyd. "When you get a doctor who is truly humanistic in his approach and tries to assist birth in an evidence-based way, he gets a lot of criticism from his colleagues, and his position in the hospital hierarchy becomes more tenuous."

      While broad cultural change requires that people change the way they think, birth activism remains a necessary part of the process. Davis-Floyd believes that, were it not for those activists, the current rate of C-sections would be even higher. In 1970, the US rate for C-sections was 5.5 percent.37 By 1985, Davis-Floyd says, it had climbed to 22 percent, largely because of the introduction of the electronic fetal monitor and its unreliable interpretations of a baby's well-being. "Then until 2001 the rate hovered between 20 and 24 percent," says Davis-Floyd. "I believe it was the birth activists who held it there for 16 years. They generated so much publicity around the issue that it actually kept doctors in check—until these factors I described made the activists lose ground. American obstetricians would have already moved on to the higher rates we see in Latin America if it had not been for the birth activist movement." (On recent trips, Davis-Floyd has observed C-section rates reaching or surpassing 40 percent in several countries in Latin America.)

      Talking about birth is also an important way to effect deeper levels of change. There has been a recent surge of creative expression on the topic of birth issues in this country (see "For More Information," below), ranging from tough-talking documentaries to novels to plays. The creators of these projects are clear about their intentions: They want things to change. "My goal is to re-train this generation and future generations with a different attitude toward giving birth—one that's not fear-based and one that validates mothers' voices," says playwright and activist Karen Brody.

      The messages deeply embedded in our culture affect not only our birth practices, but many aspects of our lives. The important question we all need to ask ourselves is, has our life told a story that we are pleased with? Have we been present for it? Many advocates of better birthing practices fear that we are now losing birth as a story—the first and most important story in the life of every one of us. Birth may be losing its unique flavor, lost in the cookie-cutter pattern of medical procedures and antiseptic surroundings. Everyone knows that a story is not so good when you already know how every part of it goes and the end has already been revealed.

      Perhaps it would be better if we could find a way to allow birth stories to unfold in the mysterious way that they do when the body is left alone—when, as Michel Odent says, true physiological birth is allowed to take place and the neocortex, the part of the brain responsible for conscious thought and language, stays mostly out of the picture. Otherwise, he wonders—as do many advocates of better birthing—will we become "too rational to survive"?

      And, of course, all of us, as individuals, must look at our own contributions to the larger culture and find out how we can change ourselves. Although doctors, hospitals, and insurance companies are doubtless huge contributors to the high rate of C-sections, and while it is tempting to focus blame on them, we must acknowledge that we all create the society we live in.

      For the notes to this article, see www.mothering.com/articles/pregnancy_birth/cesarean_vbac/culture-fear-notes.html

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          List of things a Doula or Coached father might have

    • rice sock
    • oil for body massage NOTE NOT ALL OILS ARE GOOD FOR PREGNANCY, MAKE SURE YOU DO YOUR RESEARCH.  HERE ARE JUST A FEW:
    • aromatherapy--citrus-energy, lavender-anxiety, spearmint-vomiting and nausea, ginger-nausea, peppermint-stimulate the mind, rosemary-stiff muscle (and good for postpartum baby blues, DO NOT USE WHILE PREGNANT)
      (aromatherapy massage is truly a great way to relax and de-stress, the essential oils do offer the added extra of their therapeutic properties to the body during massage while being absorbed by the skin).
    • pocket reflexology chart
    • music
    • tennis ball
    • emergency childbirth kit (never know when you’ll have a mom go fast!) 

    These are just to name a few, i can't give away all my secrets!


    Attachment Parenting by Dr.Sears
                

    You will encounter the term attachment frequently throughout this site because, in a nutshell, it is perhaps the most important term in parenting. Fill in below what becoming "attached" to your child means to you.

    • Attachment is a special bond between parent and child; a feeling that draws you magnet-like to your baby; a relationship that when felt to its deepest degree causes the mother to feel that the baby is a part of her. This feeling is so strong that, at least in the early months, the attached mother feels complete when she is with her baby and incomplete if they are apart.
    • We will often use the term mother-infant attachment, not to exclude the father, but because, at least in the early months, in most families the mother- infant attachment is more obvious. This does not mean that a father can't become deeply attached to the child, but it often seems to be a different type of attachment – not less or better than the mother's, just different.
    • Attachment means that a mother and baby are in harmony with each other. Being in harmony with your baby is one of the most fulfilling feelings a mother can ever hope to have. Watch a mother and baby who are attached (in harmony) with each other. When the baby gives a cue, such as crying or facial expressions, signifying a need, the mother, because she is open to the baby's cues, responds.
    • Initially, her responses may be a bit strained and not always what the baby needs. But as the mother-baby pair rehearse these cue-response interactions hundreds of times, after a few weeks or months into parenting this cue-response relationship becomes more natural and harmonious. The baby begins to anticipate the response that his mother will give and become further motivated to give more cues, because he learns that he will get a predictable response.
    • Because the baby gives the mother the feedback that her mothering is appreciated, the mother-baby pair enjoy each other more. They get used to each other.
    • One attached mother told us: "I feel absolutely addicted to her" – meaning that the mother feels right when she is together with her baby and not right when separated.
    • You will know when you get that attached feeling to your baby. When your baby cries and you respond from your heart with a natural and not a strained response, you are attached. When your baby gives you a cue and you respond with a feeling of rightness about your response, you are well on your way to becoming an attached parent.
    • Periodically check your sensitivity index . If you are becoming increasingly sensitive to your baby:
      • Your baby's cries bother you. You feel for your baby during colicky episodes. You are becoming attached.
      • You are determined to work at developing comforting measures when your baby is fussy. You are becoming attached.
      • You are learning to anticipate your baby's needs. A facial expression, such as a grimace, precedes a cry. You respond at the grimace stage before your baby needs to cry. You are becoming attached.
      • Your responses are becoming more natural; they flow intuitively. Instead of making a science out of your baby's cries and going through mental gymnastics (Will I spoil her? Is she manipulating me), you naturally act and feel right about your response. You are becoming attached.

     

    The Turtle Women

    American Indian doulas find success in providing culturally specific support to new mothers.
    By Elizabeth O'Sullivan
    Issue 127, November/December 2004
    Although a doula had been with Pat Welch when her daughter was born, she hadn’t been able to afford a doula two years later, at the birth of her son. When the pushing stage of labor triggered an episode of post-traumatic stress disorder, Welch decided that she was not ready to push and that she wasn’t going to do it. “I remember being yelled at, and at that point, you’re like, ‘Yeah? Well, make me!’” Welch recalled.

    The child’s father and another friend were present, but they weren’t able to talk her out of that fear. At just the right time, a friend of 20 years showed up. “Martha got very close to my ear, and in a very firm but soft voice said, ‘You better start pushing, and you better start now.’” Welch was then able to move ahead with her labor. “What I needed was that person I trusted.”

    Because of that experience, Welch was convinced of the importance and power of doulas. She was also aware that some people who most need a doula aren’t able to afford one. According to Jennifer Nunn, former president of Doulas of North America (DONA), the average cost of a doula is between $400 and $500, and in parts of the country costs can run as high as $1,000. Although an increasing number of health insurance policies cover the service, a vast majority of them do not, Nunn added.
    Pat Welch saw a need and took action. She received a grant and founded the Turtle Women’s Project, a culturally specific program providing free doulas for American Indian mothers and operating out of the American Indian Family Center in St. Paul, Minnesota. More than five years have passed since the birth of this project, and it has grown and merged with other local doula programs that it originally helped inspire. Now the American Indian doulas, called Turtle Women, work through the Family Center Community Doula Program, which also offers culturally specific services for Hmong, Latina, African, and African American women. Jessica Atkins, coordinator of the Community Doula Program, said it serves several hundred mothers every year, from those who have recently discovered that they’re pregnant to those whose babies are two months old. The Turtle Women work with 10 to 20 of those mothers, she added.

    A Culturally Specific Program
    Pat Welch created the Turtle Women’s Project to be culturally specific, beginning with its name. Because in most American Indian tribes the turtle symbolizes creation, instead of using the Greek word doula, meaning “woman servant,” the program calls them Turtle Women. These Turtle Women receive DONA training for doulas, but they also have the knowledge that comes from being American Indian.

    “All the Turtle Women are American Indian, and there’s just a sense of really knowing that you don’t have to explain anything,” Welch said. For example, a laboring woman wouldn’t need to take her focus off her own experience to tell a doula why she wanted to smudge a hospital room. (Smudging, the traditional practice of burning sage, is done to cleanse the surroundings.)

    Tara Rasmussen, who gave birth to her third child accompanied by a Turtle Woman, said it made her happy that the hospital room had been cleansed with burning sage before her child was born. It was a smell that she had grown up with, and one that she enjoyed. It also gave her a sense of peace. “I felt it was good for my baby to come into the room smelling sage,” she said.

    Smudging, playing traditional music, and having another native woman present can help make birth a ceremonial experience for mothers, said Jennifer Almanza Lopez, a Turtle Woman who has since left the program to pursue training in midwifery. Almanza Lopez wants to help acknowledge birth as a precious time when the spiritual becomes tangible.
    Turtle Women can also help bridge communication barriers during birth. Betty Day, another Turtle Woman, said that mainstream American culture differs from many American Indian cultures around such issues as when it’s appropriate to touch, speak, make eye contact, or use humor. For some mothers, dealing with issues of cross-cultural communication might be a distraction during labor. As someone who is attuned to those differences, Day is able to help mothers relax and focus on childbirth. “When you go into labor, you need to go into a place where you can just take care of yourself,” she said.

    Jennifer Almanza Lopez added that she often works with very young women, who usually don’t trust the medical authorities but are often reluctant to speak up for their needs. “Culturally, they’re very quiet when it comes to communicating with people they’re not familiar with,” she explained. In meeting with women before birth, Almanza Lopez tries to prepare them to speak up for the birth they want.

    Usually, Turtle Women meet with a pregnant woman several times before the birth. The program also offers culturally specific prenatal classes, whether or not the mother plans to use the services of a Turtle Woman. All this preparation for birth incorporates cultural issues, such as the traditional parenting methods of breastfeeding and keeping babies close. The traditional roles of the father and other family members are also discussed, but these vary from tribe to tribe. Welch said that if she and the other Turtle Women aren’t familiar with a certain tribe’s practices, they ask around and try to learn about them.
    Empowerment Amid Challenges

    Having a doula and other culturally specific support is especially important for many of the mothers who use the services of a Turtle Woman, Welch said. Many face such challenges as poverty, domestic violence, social isolation, chemical abuse, or being adolescent parents. The pregnancies of all of them are, for one reason or another, considered to be “at risk.”

    Although the doulas at the Family Center Community Doula Program don’t try to address issues such as a lack of housing, they can refer families to other staff at the American Indian Family Center who can help. Taking care of other pressing situations is necessary if a woman is to receive good prenatal care. For example, Welch said, if a mother has other children who are hungry and who don’t know where they’re going to stay, then caring for those children takes priority over making it to a prenatal checkup.
    Amid all these challenges, giving birth can be an opportunity for women to connect with their own strengths, and then to carry that feeling into their daily lives. Doing that, Welch said, can have implications that can extend beyond just one birth, and even beyond one generation, because it helps women reclaim a legacy of power that centuries of history have tried to take away. They can then pass that legacy along to their children.

    “Having a good birth is great,” Welch said. “It helps you feel empowered. It’s the most powerful time in your life; it’s creation. . . . But the self-empowerment that comes with knowledge and being able to make choices that are good for you, and good for your baby, and good for your family, helps put women on that path of being able to use that for the rest of their lives. So for me, that’s the whole point of doing this.”

    Almanza Lopez said that by working with mothers, she’s helping to counteract the violence that indigenous people have faced for centuries. She has seen modern medical practices turn birth into another violent experience for many mothers and babies. Helping births be peaceful is part of a movement among indigenous people to rebuild safe communities for themselves, she emphasized, adding that the prophecies of many native peoples predict that their nations will be rebuilt by women.

    Trusted Companion
    One step in rebuilding the nations of native peoples is to reconstruct lines of communication that have been broken, according to Jennifer Almanza Lopez. Historically, women learned about birth from their mothers, grandmothers, or other women in the community, but now this practice is not as common. When Almanza Lopez attends a birth, she considers herself to be almost an adopted grandmother of the pregnant woman. “It’s helping to build some of the trust back up and heal some of the damage that’s been done,” she said.

    One of Betty Day’s goals as a Turtle Woman is to make a powerful connection with a pregnant woman. That task is often easy for her, because she sees her own daughters and sisters in the eyes of the mothers she works with. “With that connection comes honesty, and that creates lots of different feelings that empower the woman,” Day said.

    One of those empowering feelings must be relief. Tara Rasmussen was anxious when she went to the hospital to have her baby, but when her Turtle Woman arrived, she relaxed. “She’s here! Everything is OK!” Rasmussen remembered thinking. In contrast with nurses and doctors who came and went during the birth, Rasmussen’s Turtle Woman stayed with her, rubbing her legs, giving her aromatherapy and massage, and speaking to her in calming tones. After her Turtle Woman helped her try several birthing positions, Rasmussen found one that was right and delivered her baby quickly.
    “With her, I felt a lot better and more at peace,” Rasmussen said, adding that every time she sees a pregnant woman, she encourages her to have a doula. Initially, Rasmussen wasn’t sure if she wanted to use the services of a Turtle Woman. She decided to because “she’d be just for me, and I rarely have something just for me.”

    Working with the Medical Community
    The American Indian community generally doesn’t trust the medical community because of a history of abuses such as forced sterilization, Welch said. She added that she worked with a woman who previously had been tied down while giving birth, and that some American Indian mothers feel that doctors and nurses routinely talk down to them.
    Welch said that she’s worked with many wonderful doctors and nurses, and that more of them are becoming sensitive to mothers’ needs. Occasionally, however, problems arise. “Racism is still alive and well and flourishing,” Welch said. “Some of it is really subtle. Some of it is not.”

    When Turtle Women encounter racism from the medical community, Welch said, they try to act as buffers between the mother and the offending person. Then they go back and work with the medical establishment on an administrative level to try to prevent a repetition of the incident. Turtle Women have also been educating many medical professionals about traditional practices such as smudging a room, or taking a placenta home from the hospital to bury.

    A Different Kind of Birth
    Julie Kurschner took prenatal classes taught by Turtle Women before the birth of her fifth child and said she would not have felt comfortable taking a class that wasn’t culturally specific. “Everyone’s culture is different,” she said.

    The birth of Kurschner’s fifth baby was unlike the births of her other children, who were born while she was in an abusive relationship. “Before, it was like a shaming
    experience,” Kurschner said. “But this experience was more positive, and more natural, and more real.” For this birth, she was no longer in a bad relationship, and she went to the hospital equipped with knowledge and accompanied by her Turtle Woman, Betty Day.

    Unlike during her previous births, Kurschner didn’t feel she had to stay on her back the whole time. Before, nurses had come and gone, but no one had mentioned trying alternate birthing positions. “Nobody ever told me there’s more than one position to deliver the baby, and when you’re on your back, you hurt the most,” Kurschner said. Because there were so many monitors on her and her baby during the fifth birth, Kurschner’s positions were still somewhat limited, but Day helped her switch from side to side as she labored.

    Day stayed with Kurschner during the three-day labor, ducking out one evening to make meat loaf for Kurschner’s four other children. She also brought soothing music, sweetgrass, and sage to the hospital, in case Kurschner wanted to smudge her room in the traditional way. Kurschner also knew she could pray with Day if she wanted to. “Having positive people around is a really important piece to keeping your saneness in having a baby,” Kurschner said.

    After two days of labor, when the medical professionals said they would need to operate if the baby weren’t born soon, Day walked for an hour with Kurschner, encouraging her to talk to the baby. Kurschner said that during her other births, she would have felt strange walking around talking to her unborn child, but with Day’s support, it felt natural.

    Kurschner told the child, “It’s time. We have to do this together.” Soon after the hourlong walk, Kurschner’s only son was born. She said she felt she was bringing him into the world with love instead of just going through the motions, as she had four times before.

    “I feel more bonded to my baby,” Kurschner said. “All the other births were real, but this birth was more important to me because I was at a positive stage of my life.”

    Results
    Pat Welch said women who use the services of a Turtle Woman have babies with better birth weights, that the mothers are more likely to breastfeed, and that cesarean sections are less common. The sense of empowerment that Welch wants the program to foster is harder to measure, but Welch recalls stories of mothers who have gone back to school or left abusive relationships after working with a Turtle Woman.

    Betty Day said she will never see all the results of the work she does helping mothers experience their power during birth and bringing children into the world in an atmosphere of peace. Those results might not be known until many years have passed. “You never know where it might lead,” she said.

    Jennifer Almanza Lopez also believes that the impact of her work will linger for many years. If mothers experience birth as a spiritual event that brings them closer to their communities instead of as a violent incident that takes place among strangers, then they can pass that attitude along to their children. “They can take that back and give it to their children to give to their children,” she said.

    The decisions a woman makes while giving birth set the stage for the many decisions she will need to make as a mother, Lopez explained. Being empowered during that crucial time of her life can help a woman foster the healthy growth of the next generation.
    As she described this idea during a telephone conversation, Lopez’s phone beeped to indicate that someone was calling on the other line. It was a mother who had
    just gone into labor; Almanza Lopez rushed off to help with the birth of the child, and perhaps to help with the rebirth of a nation.

    For more information about doulas, see the following articles in
    past issues of Mothering: “Nature’s Way Circle: An American Indian Breastfeeding Community,” no. 107; “A Doula Makes the Difference,”
    no. 87; and “A Doula Rises Early,” no. 43.

    For more related material, go to www.mothering.com

    Elizabeth O’Sullivan is a mother, writer, and Mothering
    subscriber who lives in Minneapolis.



    Inducing labour a risky procedure
    Wednesday, 10 December 2008
    La Trobe University
    http://www. sciencealert. com. au/news/20081012-18564. html
    Caution should be exercised when inducing labour in women who have no clinical indications for the procedure, says Dr Mary-Ann Davey of Mother and Child Health Research at La Trobe University.
    Her conclusion follows a major quantitative study of 50,000 first births between 2000 and 2005 which showed that induced labours were more likely than spontaneous births to lead to forceps delivery, caesarean section and haemorrhage.
    Babies were also more likely to be admitted to nursery care and to require active resuscitation after induced labour.
    Dr Davey stresses that the sample included only those women whose pregnancies were     progressing in a healthy and normal manner. ‘I used data that are routinely collected on all births in Victoria by the midwife attending the birth,’ Dr Davey said.‘I selected those first births that appeared to have no clinical indication for induction of labour.
    These were all single pregnancies of normal presentation born between 37 and 40 weeks with birthweights between the tenth and ninetieth percentile.
    Mothers had no complications, such as pre-existing diabetes, hypertension, cardiac disease or mental illness and those younger than 20 years or older than 45 were excluded from the  analysis.
    Dr Davey believes that many of the labours were induced for reasons of convenience rather than for any medical indications. Sometimes the pregnancies might be induced because they are past the due date but only by six days or less.Dr Davey suggests that induction of labour in uncomplicated pregnancies should only be undertaken after carefully weighing up the risks and benefits.
    She cautions that the design of the research demonstrates associations, but not necessarily causal ones. ‘There was a consistent pattern shown on nearly all of the outcomes,’ she said.
    After adjustment for other important factors, the risk of haemorrhage following induced labour was increased by 17 per cent, of an instrumental delivery by 20-70 per cent, of  nursery care for the infant by 24 per cent and active resuscitation by 15-100 per cent, depending on the method of induction.
    The risk of a caesarean was between two and four times more likely after induction. She also found that women whose labour was induced were more likely to experience tearing of the perineum or episiotomy.
    There was no evidence, she said, that the type of labour had any connection with the death of the mother or baby.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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